Whenever you feel like criticizing any one... just remember that all the people in this world haven't had the advantages that you've had.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Remember others lack your advantages before you judge them harshly.
- In plain terms
- Don't judge people without knowing their struggles.
- What can you take from it?
- Empathy requires remembering others' struggles.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When did you learn about someone's hidden struggles?
- How does privilege shape your judgments?
Another view
Understanding causes does not always excuse harmful behavior.
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