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What does it mean?
The speaker feels lonely in isolation and burdened by social interaction.
In plain terms
Being alone hurts him; being with others annoys him.
What can you take from it?
Finding balance between solitude and company is hard.

Where it applies

  • introverts
  • social burnout
  • mental health

Putting it to work

  • limit social time
  • respect solitude

Questions to consider

  • Do you prefer alone or company?
  • What feels oppressive?

Another view

Some thrive in solitude or company depending on mood.

More from Fernando Pessoa

  1. In order to understand, I destroyed myself.

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  2. Yes, talking to people makes me sleepy.

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  3. For I am the size of what I see / not my height's size.

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