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What does it mean?
People often socialize without a clear purpose, hoping to find something to say rather than having a specific reason to communicate.
In plain terms
We talk to others not because we have something to share, but because we hope to find something to say.
What can you take from it?
Have a purpose for your conversations instead of wandering aimlessly.

Where it applies

  • casual gatherings
  • networking events
  • daily socializing

Putting it to work

  • prepare topics before meetings
  • set conversation goals
  • listen actively

Questions to consider

  • Do you often feel you have nothing to say when meeting others?
  • Why do you initiate conversations?

Another view

Sometimes spontaneous conversation is valuable even without a clear goal.

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