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What does it mean?
Conversations dominated by self-reference are exhausting.
In plain terms
Stop talking only about yourself and me.
What can you take from it?
Avoid self-centered talk.

Where it applies

  • small talk
  • arguments
  • social gatherings

Putting it to work

  • diversify topics

Questions to consider

  • Do you talk too much about yourself?
  • How do you end boring conversations?

Another view

Some people enjoy personal stories.

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