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What does it mean?
We enjoy criticizing others' flaws because we lack our own.
In plain terms
We like pointing out others' faults because we don't have them.
What can you take from it?
Use criticism of others to reflect on your own hidden flaws.

Where it applies

  • gossip
  • feedback sessions
  • social media

Putting it to work

  • ask what you hide
  • turn critique inward

Questions to consider

  • What does this criticism say about you?
  • Are you projecting?

Another view

Pointing out real faults is sometimes necessary.

More from Francois de La Rochefoucauld

  1. Le mal que nous faisons ne nous attire pas tant de persecution et de haine que nos bonnes qualites.

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  2. La jalousie se nourrit dans les doutes, et elle devient fureur, ou elle finit, sitot qu'on passe du doute a la certitude.

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  3. Le soleil ni la mort ne se peuvent regarder fixement.

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