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What does it mean?
Helping ungrateful people is acceptable, but being forced to help a dishonest man is unbearable.
In plain terms
It is tolerable to aid those who do not thank you, but intolerable to be compelled to assist a corrupt person.
What can you take from it?
Choose who you are obligated to help carefully.

Where it applies

  • personal relationships
  • ethical dilemmas

Putting it to work

  • evaluate requests for help

Questions to consider

  • When did you feel compelled to help someone unethical?

Another view

Sometimes we cannot easily distinguish a dishonest man from a merely ungrateful one.

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