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What does it mean?
Jealousy is more about ego and ownership than love.
In plain terms
Jealousy shows your pride matters more than your love for them.
What can you take from it?
Check if your jealousy is about control or genuine care.

Where it applies

  • romantic conflicts
  • protecting relationships
  • social drama

Putting it to work

  • ask what you fear losing
  • separate ego from affection

Questions to consider

  • Is this about them or your image?
  • What are you afraid of losing?

Another view

Love and possessiveness often overlap.

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