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About this quote

What does it mean?
Everyone has enough strength to bear other people's troubles.
In plain terms
We can tolerate others' pain easily.
What can you take from it?
We are patient with others' misery but not our own.

Where it applies

  • giving advice
  • listening
  • conflict

Putting it to work

  • practicing self-compassion
  • listening actively

Questions to consider

  • Is your tolerance higher for others?
  • Why is self-suffering worse?

Another view

It ignores deep empathy some people feel for others.

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