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What does it mean?
We should not be offended when others hide the truth from us, because we often hide it from ourselves.
In plain terms
Do not blame others for hiding truth when you hide it from yourself.
What can you take from it?
Recognize your own self-deception before criticizing others.

Where it applies

  • receiving criticism
  • conflict resolution
  • personal reflection

Putting it to work

  • audit your own lies
  • expect opacity from others
  • practice radical honesty

Questions to consider

  • How often do you lie to yourself?
  • Are you projecting your own secrets?

Another view

Sometimes others do hide truth maliciously regardless of our own faults.

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