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What does it mean?
Self‑despising people still respect themselves in the role of the despiser.
In plain terms
Even when you despise yourself, you still value that role.
What can you take from it?
Recognize that self‑contempt still grants a form of self‑respect.

Where it applies

  • mental health
  • personal development

Putting it to work

  • challenge self‑despise thoughts
  • reframe self‑identity

Questions to consider

  • Why do we cling to negative self‑roles?
  • How can we replace despise with healthier self‑views?

Another view

The statement may oversimplify complex self‑esteem dynamics.

More from Friedrich Nietzsche

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  2. One seeks a midwife for his thoughts, another someone to whom he can be a midwife: thus originates a good conversation.

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  3. One has only seen little of life, if one hasn't also seen the hand that mercifully - kills.

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