The test of a man or woman's breeding is how they behave in a quarrel.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Shaw defines breeding as behavior during conflict rather than general manners.
- In plain terms
- A person's upbringing shows when they fight, not just when they are polite.
- What can you take from it?
- Look at how people argue to judge their character.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What is real breeding?
- How do you handle fights?
Another view
Some people lose control in arguments regardless of upbringing.
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