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What does it mean?
The author contrasts vanity in youth based on female admiration with vanity in age based on critical acclaim.
In plain terms
I was vain when young because women liked me and now I am vain because critics praise me.
What can you take from it?
Sources of vanity change as one ages but the feeling remains.

Where it applies

  • reflecting on aging
  • discussing vanity
  • evaluating success

Putting it to work

  • recognize sources of ego
  • question external praise

Questions to consider

  • Why do we seek validation from others?
  • How does age change what we value?

Another view

The self-deprecating tone masks a deep reliance on external validation.

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