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Many people didn't realize it at the time [of the bus accident], but Emilio didn't know if he could handle something as emotional as that. Men are often very goal-oriented and problem-solving, even in their emotional life. My husband could have turned and run the other way, and I'm sure that many have done that. But Emilio became so supportive, I couldn't have asked for more love and support. I really would not have been the same without him. It deepened our relationship beyond what words can describe, because we lived through a very tough experience together.

Gloria Estefan#209

ResilienceSupportLoveStrengthRelationship

About this quote

What does it mean?
The speaker reflects on how a difficult shared experience deepened her relationship with her husband, who provided immense support.
In plain terms
Going through a hard time together made their relationship stronger.
What can you take from it?
Shared struggles can strengthen relationships.

Where it applies

  • crisis management
  • marriage advice

Putting it to work

  • lean on partner
  • value support

Questions to consider

  • How does support affect you?
  • What strengthens your relationships?

Another view

It does not address how conflicts are resolved.

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