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She was unusual because even though I knew her family was as poor as ours, nothing she said or did seemed touched by that. Or by prejudice. Or by anything the world said or did. It was as if she had something inside her that somehow made all that not count. I fell in love with her some the first time we ever talked, and a little bit more every time after that until I thought I couldn't love her more than I did. And when I felt that way, I asked her to marry me ... and she said she would.

Jesse Owens#11

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About this quote

What does it mean?
The author describes a partner who transcended poverty and prejudice through inner strength, leading to deep love and marriage.
In plain terms
Love was found in someone strong despite hardship and prejudice.
What can you take from it?
Inner strength can overcome external hardships.

Where it applies

  • romantic relationships
  • overcoming hardship
  • family life

Putting it to work

  • look beyond surface
  • value character
  • commit to partner

Questions to consider

  • What qualities make you fall in love?
  • How do you see inner strength?

Another view

Poverty and prejudice can deeply affect lives despite individual strength.

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