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Behind the complicated details of the world stand the simplicities: God is good, the grown-up man or woman knows the answer to every question, there is such a thing as truth, and justice is as measured and faultless as a clock. Our heroes are simple: they are brave, they tell the truth, they are good swordsmen and they are never in the long run really defeated. That is why no later books satisfy us like those which were read to us in childhood-for those promised a world of great simplicity of which we knew the rules, but the later books are complicated and contradictory with experience; they are formed out of our own disappointing memories.

Graham Greene#29

TruthChildhoodDisappointmentExpectations

About this quote

What does it mean?
Childhood stories promise simple rules, but adult life is complex and disappointing.
In plain terms
Adult life is harder and less clear than childhood stories suggested.
What can you take from it?
Accept that life is complex and not always fair.

Where it applies

  • reading adults
  • processing grief
  • parenting

Putting it to work

  • managing expectations
  • narrative therapy

Questions to consider

  • Why do you miss childhood?
  • What rules do you live by?

Another view

Simple frameworks often provide necessary comfort.

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