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What does it mean?
Parents often disappoint children later in life because they fail to meet the high standards set in early years.
In plain terms
Parents disappoint kids when they don't meet the promise shown early on.
What can you take from it?
Early parental promise can set expectations that lead to later disappointment.

Where it applies

  • family conflict
  • growing up
  • parent child relationship

Putting it to work

  • manage expectations
  • evaluate parents
  • process disappointment

Questions to consider

  • Did your parents disappoint you?
  • What promise was broken?

Another view

Children's early idealization might be unrealistic regardless of parental behavior.

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