At the end of what is called the 'sexual life' the only love which has lasted is the love which has everything, every disappointment, every failure and every betrayal, which has accepted even the sad fact that in the end there is no desire so deep as the simple desire for companionship.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Enduring love evolves into desire for companionship despite failures.
- In plain terms
- Old love is about wanting to be with someone not about passion.
- What can you take from it?
- Prioritize companionship over romantic passion in long relationships.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What does enduring love require?
- Can desire and companionship coexist?
Another view
Not all relationships survive to this stage.
More from Graham Greene
Death will come in any case, and there is a long afterwards if the priests are right and nothing to fear if they are wrong.
Permalink to quote #61 Failure too is a form of death.
Permalink to quote #63 Simplicity belonged by right to those who were native-born, those who could take the conditions of life, however bizarre, for granted.
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