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What does it mean?
Enduring love evolves into desire for companionship despite failures.
In plain terms
Old love is about wanting to be with someone not about passion.
What can you take from it?
Prioritize companionship over romantic passion in long relationships.

Where it applies

  • counseling
  • marriage
  • elder care

Putting it to work

  • invest in companionship
  • accept relationship evolution

Questions to consider

  • What does enduring love require?
  • Can desire and companionship coexist?

Another view

Not all relationships survive to this stage.

More from Graham Greene

  1. Death will come in any case, and there is a long afterwards if the priests are right and nothing to fear if they are wrong.

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  2. Failure too is a form of death.

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  3. Simplicity belonged by right to those who were native-born, those who could take the conditions of life, however bizarre, for granted.

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