I've repeatedly said that for people as little in common as Joanne and myself, we have an uncommonly good marriage. We are actors, we make pictures - and that's about all we have in common. Maybe that's enough. Wives shouldn't feel obligated to accompany their husbands to a ball game, husbands do look a bit silly attending morning coffee breaks with the neighbourhood wives when most men are out at work. Husbands and wives should have separate interests, cultivate different sets of friends - and not impose one upon the other.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Successful marriages allow separate interests and friends without imposing on each other.
- In plain terms
- Couples should have different hobbies and friends.
- What can you take from it?
- Allow space in relationships.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How much space do you need?
- How do you balance togetherness?
Another view
Too much separation can weaken bonds over time.
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