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What does it mean?
Love should surpass the need for validation in a relationship.
In plain terms
Love each other more than you need each other.
What can you take from it?
Independence strengthens bond quality.

Where it applies

  • partnerships
  • marriage
  • friendships

Putting it to work

  • support autonomy
  • express care
  • set boundaries

Questions to consider

  • What is your need in love?
  • How do you give love?

Another view

Need and love often overlap and shift.

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