Oh God they got you gun shy You know your skin's as cold as ice Your eyes are double filtered babe You're so afraid to be nice There's no way you're ready To let your defenses down Though I won't come on heavy There is a lesson that I've found.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The speaker observes someone who is fearful and guarded, unable to let their defenses down despite potential connection.
- In plain terms
- You look cold and afraid to be nice, even though someone wants to help you open up.
- What can you take from it?
- Fear often blocks us from letting others in.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why do we guard our feelings?
- How do you help someone open up?
Another view
It places the burden of change on the guarded person.
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