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Somewhere in Des Moines or San Antonio there is a young gay person who all the sudden realizes that he or she is gay; knows that if their parents find out they will be tossed out of the house, their classmates will taunt the child, and the Anita Bryant's and John Briggs' are doing their part on TV. And that child has several options: staying in the closet, and suicide. And then one day that child might open the paper that says 'Homosexual elected in San Francisco' and there are two new options: the option is to go to California, or stay in San Antonio and fight. Two days after I was elected I got a phone call and the voice was quite young. It was from Altoona, Pennsylvania. And the person said 'Thanks'. And you've got to elect gay people, so that thousand upon thousands like that child know that there is hope for a better world; there is hope for a better tomorrow. Without hope, not only gays, but those who are blacks, the Asians, the disabled, the seniors, the us's: without hope the us's give up. I know that you can't live on hope alone, but without it, life is not worth living. And you, and you, and you, and you have got to give them hope.

Harvey Milk#3

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Visibility and representation of LGBTQ+ leaders offer hope and alternatives to suffering for isolated youth.
In plain terms
Seeing gay leaders succeed gives isolated youth hope and a reason to stay.
What can you take from it?
Representation saves lives.

Where it applies

  • advocacy
  • media
  • community support

Putting it to work

  • increasing visibility
  • political activism

Questions to consider

  • Does representation change hearts?
  • What drives hope in marginalized groups?

Another view

Policy change is also required beyond symbolic representation.

More from Harvey Milk

  1. You gotta give them hope.

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  2. All over the country, they're reading about me, and the story doesn't center on me being gay. It's just about a gay person who is doing his job.

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  3. If a bullet should enter my brain, let that bullet destroy every closet door.

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