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What does it mean?
People who are overly self centered like to surround themselves with incompetent people to feel superior.
In plain terms
Egotists like incompetent people because it makes them feel better about themselves.
What can you take from it?
Be aware that narcissists may seek out weak people to boost their ego.

Where it applies

  • workplace
  • friendship
  • self awareness

Putting it to work

  • avoid ego driven people
  • value competence
  • build mutual respect

Questions to consider

  • Who surrounds you and why?
  • How does ego influence relationships?

Another view

Some people seek incompetence out of ignorance not malice.

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