Only stupid men trying to seem smart need to be with dumb women. Only weak men trying to look strong are attracted to compliant women.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Insecure men seek partners who reinforce their perceived status.
- In plain terms
- Men trying to look smart or strong choose partners who seem lesser or compliant.
- What can you take from it?
- Insecurity drives attraction to submissive or unchallenging partners.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why do some choose less challenging partners?
- What signals insecurity in dating?
Another view
Attraction is complex and not always driven by insecurity.
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