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What does it mean?
Living with a powerful god is difficult, especially regarding their expectation of gratitude.
In plain terms
Gods are hard to live with because they expect you to be grateful.
What can you take from it?
Power dynamics often create resentment between partners.

Where it applies

  • marriage
  • leadership
  • dependency

Putting it to work

  • set boundaries
  • negotiate expectations

Questions to consider

  • What makes power toxic in relationships?
  • Is gratitude forced or chosen?

Another view

It generalizes powerful beings as universally ungrateful.

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