But our home's been nothing but a playpen. I've been your doll-wife here, just as at home I was Papa's doll-child. And in turn the children have been my dolls. I thought it fun when you played with me, just as they thought it fun when I played with them. That's been our marriage, Torvald.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Our marriage is a series of role‑playing games where each person is treated as a doll.
- In plain terms
- We act like toys, not partners.
- What can you take from it?
- Seek authentic partnership beyond superficial roles.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What makes a partnership feel genuine?
- How do you balance playfulness and seriousness?
Another view
Some couples find comfort in defined roles.
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