One friend in a lifetime is much, two are many, three are hardly possible. Friendship needs a certain parallelism of life, a community of thought, a rivalry of aim.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- True friendship is rare because it requires shared life paths, thoughts, and competitive goals.
- In plain terms
- Good friends are rare because they need to have similar lives and goals.
- What can you take from it?
- Value deep friendships but recognize how rare they are.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What makes a true friend?
- How many true friends do I have?
Another view
Friendship can exist without total parallelism of life or goals.
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