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What does it mean?
Being a lover is easier than being a husband because keeping wit daily is harder than occasional flattering words.
In plain terms
Staying witty daily is tougher than occasional compliments.
What can you take from it?
Consistent intellect matters more than occasional charm.

Where it applies

  • long‑term partnership
  • courtship

Putting it to work

  • cultivate daily curiosity
  • avoid relying on flattery

Questions to consider

  • What makes a marriage sustainable?
  • Is wit essential in partnership?

Another view

It stereotypes gender roles and undervalues partnership duties.

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  3. Un homme ne peut se marier sans avoir etudie l'anatomie et disseque une femme au moins.

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