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About this quote

What does it mean?
He notes that lovers can say a word that means the opposite of its literal sense.
In plain terms
Lovers use words that mean the opposite.
What can you take from it?
Pay attention to context in intimate conversations.

Where it applies

  • between partners
  • in romantic letters

Putting it to work

  • clarify meanings
  • avoid misunderstandings

Questions to consider

  • How does irony shape intimacy?
  • When does a word become a secret code?

Another view

The quote is vague and lacks a concrete example.

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