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What does it mean?
A direct question cuts through hesitation to demand a clear answer.
In plain terms
Asking if someone will eat something forces a decision.
What can you take from it?
Directness can resolve uncertainty in social situations.

Where it applies

  • social interaction
  • negotiating needs
  • clarifying intent

Putting it to work

  • ask clear questions
  • avoid ambiguity

Questions to consider

  • When should you be direct?
  • How do you respond to blunt questions?

Another view

Direct questions can sometimes feel aggressive or rude depending on context.

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