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What does it mean?
Engaged women feel secure and free to please others without suspicion.
In plain terms
Marriage security makes women more agreeable.
What can you take from it?
Security boosts social ease.

Where it applies

  • social gatherings
  • dating
  • relationship milestones

Putting it to work

  • understand role of security in behavior

Questions to consider

  • Does security change behavior?
  • Why do we value engagement?

Another view

Not all engaged people feel this way.

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