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What does it mean?
Someone pursues a partner who seems too good for them, yet they earnestly chase this 'blessing.'
In plain terms
People chase partners who seem out of their league.
What can you take from it?
Desire can persist even when odds seem low.

Where it applies

  • dating
  • romantic pursuit
  • unrequited love

Putting it to work

  • Assess self-worth in relationships
  • Pursue goals earnestly

Questions to consider

  • When is idealization healthy?
  • How do you measure worth?

Another view

It assumes the partner is actually 'too good.'

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