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What does it mean?
Believing you are grand or special improves mood, even if false.
In plain terms
Pretending to be important makes you feel better.
What can you take from it?
Delusion can soothe ego.

Where it applies

  • feeling insecure
  • dealing with failure
  • self-improvement

Putting it to work

  • build real confidence
  • accept limitations
  • avoid grandiosity

Questions to consider

  • What illusions protect you?
  • Can false beliefs help?

Another view

Delusions can lead to poor decisions and isolation.

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