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What does it mean?
People often try to change a habit but inevitably return to it.
In plain terms
A man might shave his beard but grows it back quickly.
What can you take from it?
Habits are hard to break permanently.

Where it applies

  • personal change
  • addiction
  • style choices

Putting it to work

  • accept your nature
  • plan for relapse

Questions to consider

  • Why do we return to old habits?
  • Is true change possible?

Another view

Some changes are permanent if the motivation is strong enough.

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