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Pity and forbearance, and long-sufferance and fair interpretation, and excusing our brother, and taking in the best sense, and passing the gentlest sentence, are as certainly our duty, and owing to every person that does offend and can repent, as calling to account can be owing to the law, and are first to be paid; and he that does not so is an unjust person.

Jeremy Taylor#8

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Emphasizing that forgiveness and gentle judgment are duties owed to others as much as accountability is.
In plain terms
Forgiveness is just as important as holding someone accountable.
What can you take from it?
Prioritize empathy and forgiveness.

Where it applies

  • interpersonal conflict
  • community building
  • moral guidance

Putting it to work

  • practice forgiveness
  • judge less harshly

Questions to consider

  • How do we balance justice and mercy?
  • Is forgiveness a duty?

Another view

Accountability is sometimes necessary for justice.

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