'No one warns young people to follow Adam's example. He waited till God saw his need. Then God made Adam sleep, prepared for his mate, and brought her to him. We need more of this 'being asleep' in the will of God. Then we can receive what He brings us in His own time, if at all. Instead we are set as bloodhounds after a partner, considering everyone we see until our minds are so concerned with the sex problem that we can talk of nothing else when bull-session time comes around. It is true that a fellow cannot ignore women-but he can think of them as he ought-as sisters, not as sparring partners!' - Shadow of the Almighty, Chapter 4
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The speaker criticizes the anxious pursuit of partners, advocating patience and viewing others as sisters rather than romantic targets.
- In plain terms
- Don't hunt for partners anxiously; wait and treat people as sisters.
- What can you take from it?
- Patience and respectful treatment of others lead to better relationship outcomes.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do we balance patience and action?
- Why treat others as sisters?
Another view
It may discourage active relationship building.
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