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What does it mean?
We cannot shape children by our own ideas alone; we must accept and love them as they are given.
In plain terms
Raise children by loving them as they come, not by imposing our concepts.
What can you take from it?
Embrace each child's individuality when parenting.

Where it applies

  • raising a child
  • education
  • family counseling

Putting it to work

  • listen to a child's needs
  • avoid projecting personal expectations

Questions to consider

  • How do you balance guidance and acceptance?
  • What expectations have you let go?

Another view

Parents still need to guide; love alone may not provide structure.

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