If I accept you as you are, I will make you worse; however if I treat you as though you are what you are capable of becoming, I help you become that.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Accepting someone as they are can limit them; treating them as their potential helps them grow.
- In plain terms
- Seeing people as capable of more helps them improve.
- What can you take from it?
- Encourage others by focusing on their potential.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When have you helped someone reach a higher potential?
Another view
Over‑expectations can cause pressure.
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