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What does it mean?
One person talks in vain while the other only hears 'no'.
In plain terms
Talking in vain meets only refusal.
What can you take from it?
Listen and speak with intention.

Where it applies

  • argument
  • negotiation

Putting it to work

  • clarify intent before speaking
  • seek feedback

Questions to consider

  • How can you improve mutual understanding?
  • When is silence better than speaking?

Another view

Sometimes silence is a valid response.

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