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What does it mean?
The speaker admits to feigning attention and questions what more is expected from them in a conversation.
In plain terms
I pretend to listen, but I don't know what else she wants from me.
What can you take from it?
Active listening requires more than just pretending to pay attention.

Where it applies

  • conversational conflict
  • partner advice
  • workplace dynamics

Putting it to work

  • practice active listening techniques
  • ask what others need to feel heard

Questions to consider

  • What does good listening look like to you?
  • How can you show you care without words?

Another view

Pretending to listen might work temporarily but fails long term.

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