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Beloved, don't fret that you gave yourself so quickly! Believe me, I don't think badly or wrongly of you. The arrows of Love are various: some scratch us, And our hearts suffer for years from their slow poison. But others strong-feathered with freshly sharpened points Pierce to the marrow, and quickly inflame the blood. In the heroic ages, when gods and goddesses loved, Desire followed a look, and joy followed desire.

Johann Wolfgang von Goethe#49

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Love can wound in many ways, some slowly and painfully, others quickly and intensely, yet both are part of the human experience.
In plain terms
Love hurts in different ways, some slow, some fast.
What can you take from it?
Recognize that love’s pain varies and can be a sign of deep feeling.

Where it applies

  • heartbreak
  • romantic longing

Putting it to work

  • reflect on past loves
  • embrace the intensity of feelings

Questions to consider

  • Why do we sometimes value painful love?
  • How can we differentiate healthy from harmful love?

Another view

It romanticizes suffering, overlooking healthy boundaries.

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