Let us live in as small a circle as we will, we are either debtors or creditors before we have had time to look round.
PsychologyEthicsRelationshipsSocietyReciprocitySocial dynamics
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- We live within a limited circle of relationships, constantly being either owed or owing before we can fully understand our surroundings.
- In plain terms
- We are always in debt or credit in our small social world.
- What can you take from it?
- Be mindful of the give‑and‑take in your relationships.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What debts do you owe socially?
- How can you repay emotional debts?
Another view
It oversimplifies complex social interactions to mere debt/credit terms.
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