'Lies are told only to convey to someone that one has no need either of him or his good opinion.'
PsychologyEthicsCommunicationRelationshipsIndifferenceLiesSocial dynamics
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The quote suggests lies are used to signal that the liar does not value the other person's opinion or presence.
- In plain terms
- Lies show we don’t care about the other’s view.
- What can you take from it?
- Deception often masks indifference.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why do people lie to distance themselves?
- When is lying justified, if ever?
Another view
Not all lies stem from indifference; some protect feelings or safety.
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