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Many, throwing themselves prostrate, and striking the ground with their forehead, and pouring forth hot tears, and groaning bitterly from the heart and stretching out their hands, and displaying much earnestness, employ this warmth and forwardness against their own salvation. For it is not on behalf of their own sins that they beseech God; nor are they asking forgiveness of the offences committed by them; but they are exerting this earnestness against their enemies, doing just the same thing as if one, after whetting his sword, were not to use the weapon against his enemies, but to thrust it through his own throat. So these also use their prayers not for the remission of their own sins, but about revenge on their enemies; which is to thrust the sword against themselves.

John Chrysostom#24

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Earnest prayer focused on vengeance against enemies harms the pray-er rather than the target. It is like sharpening a sword but stabbing yourself instead of the foe.
In plain terms
Praying to hurt others hurts you more than them.
What can you take from it?
Direct your spiritual energy inward, not against others.

Where it applies

  • conflict
  • spiritual practice
  • emotional struggle

Putting it to work

  • prayer
  • introspection
  • forgiveness

Questions to consider

  • Who benefits from your angry prayers?
  • How is your spiritual practice helping or harming you?

Another view

People often feel justified when seeking justice against wrongs.

More from John Chrysostom

  1. Prayer for our enemies is the very highest summit of self-control.

    Permalink to quote #23
  2. How great punishment must they deserve, who, far from themselves forgiving, do even entreat God for vengeance on their enemies, and as it were diametrically tr…

    Permalink to quote #25
  3. Praying against one's personal enemies is a transgression of law.

    Permalink to quote #22

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