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What does it mean?
Responding to a wrong with an equivalent action.
In plain terms
Retaliate in kind.
What can you take from it?
Match actions to actions.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • personal boundaries

Putting it to work

  • apply proportional response
  • avoid escalating cycles

Questions to consider

  • When is retaliation effective?
  • What alternatives exist?

Another view

Tit-for-tat can perpetuate conflict rather than resolve it.

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