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About this quote

What does it mean?
She treats him with the same attitude or method he used on her.
In plain terms
She treats him the way he treated her.
What can you take from it?
Treat others as they treat you.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • negotiation
  • personal disputes

Putting it to work

  • mirror behavior to set boundaries
  • respond proportionally

Questions to consider

  • Is it fair to fight fire with fire?
  • When should you break the cycle?

Another view

Escalating retaliation can worsen conflict.

More from Jonathan Swift

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  2. There was all the world and his wife.

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  3. Better belly burst than good liquor be lost.

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