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About this quote

What does it mean?
Questions are only ugly if asked with arrogance or a desire to belittle.
In plain terms
Questions are fine unless asked to be condescending.
What can you take from it?
Ask questions with respect to avoid being rude.

Where it applies

  • learning
  • debate
  • social interaction

Putting it to work

  • check tone
  • ask respectfully
  • avoid mocking

Questions to consider

  • How does your tone change how a question is received?
  • When have you felt belittled by a question?

Another view

Some questions can be intrusive regardless of tone.

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