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The rules that obtain among themselves [a people] appear to them self-evident and self-justifying. This all but universal illusion is one of the examples of the magical influence of custom, which is not only, as the proverb says, a second nature, but is continually mistaken for the first. The effect of custom, in preventing any misgiving respecting the rules of conduct which mankind impose on one another, is all the more complete because the subject is one on which it is not generally considered necessary that reasons should be given, either by one person to others, or by each to himself. (p. 10)

John Stuart Mill#10

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Customs seem self-evident to those following them, masking their influence over conduct.
In plain terms
People think customs are natural rules, not learned habits.
What can you take from it?
Question customs that feel natural.

Where it applies

  • social analysis
  • personal ethics
  • cultural study

Putting it to work

  • critiquing norms
  • examining habits
  • reflecting on rules

Questions to consider

  • Are habits truly natural?
  • Why do we follow rules?

Another view

It implies reason should always guide rules, which is debatable.

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