To mark all that I say in conversation, merely to beget in others, a good opinion of myself, and examine it.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Edwards commits to monitoring his conversation to avoid boasting about himself and to examine why he speaks.
- In plain terms
- Watch what you say to avoid bragging.
- What can you take from it?
- Avoid seeking approval through talk.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why do you speak often?
- How much do you seek approval?
Another view
Monitoring speech constantly can inhibit natural conversation.
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