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What does it mean?
Acknowledges that talking about oneself too much becomes tiresome.
In plain terms
Self-talk gets boring and excessive over time.
What can you take from it?
Avoid talking only about yourself to keep people interested.

Where it applies

  • casual talk
  • interviews
  • performances

Putting it to work

  • listen more
  • vary your stories

Questions to consider

  • How do you balance talking and listening?
  • When do you feel exhausted by your own stories?

Another view

Sometimes self-expression is necessary for sharing experiences.

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