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What does it mean?
Growing up involves change and loss, but also gain as relationships shift over time.
In plain terms
Friends change and life changes, but something is gained from living daily.
What can you take from it?
Accept change as a natural part of growing.

Where it applies

  • aging
  • life transitions
  • social change

Putting it to work

  • accept life changes
  • value daily living
  • let go of past

Questions to consider

  • What have you lost and gained over time?
  • How has your view of friendship changed?

Another view

Sometimes change feels purely negative without obvious gain.

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